A random assortment of links about writing, parenting, working, cooking, and whatnot. Mostly whatnot.
- Are you a moderator or an abstainer when you try to give something up? Being moderate stresses me out like you wouldn’t believe. It’s much easier for me to just give something up entirely than have to think about it all the time. Whereas I know moderators who flip out at the mere suggestion of ever giving something up entirely. Knowing yourself helps you get results.Gretchen Rubin’s quiz might help.
- If you want to sell your house, the WSJ says, basically you want to get it looking as much like the Pottery Barn catalog as possible.
- “Stop worrying 18% of your life. Stop overthinking everything. Stop remaining seated comfortably. Stop accepting things as they are, even if they suck. Stop taking the path of least resistance. Stop living the life other people planned for you.” Penelope Trunk has an insightful way of getting at the root of things.
- “It’s scary to tell people I’m not working full time because all the good jobs will dry up. And it’s scary to tell people when I’m not home with my kids because I only get one chance in my life to do that. The labels are most scary because they tell you what you gave up. And the scariest thing about adult life is what we give up. What women try to do today is give up nothing. Which is impossible.” I’m trying to find the balance between being home and homeschooling and working part time with a writing company, and it really is a philosophical balance as much as a scheduling issue. Again, a thoughtful article from Penelope Trunk.
- “Sometimes things just happen. Situations escalate. Children get overly rowdy while you are nursing, or changing a diaper, or elbow deep in raw chicken. You are making dinner, but they want snacks. The phone is ringing, there has been a potty incident, and the Jehovah Witnesses are at your doorbell. Someone breaks their necklace of beads, and the crawling baby has never been more thrilled to try to choke.” Wise words from Femina about how to handle parenting situations you can’t walk away from.
- This is a great idea for a memory work system. Right now we’re using a file box separated into days of the week for review, but it’s getting unwieldy and we’re about to move to the monthly model like the one described in this link from Simply Charlotte Mason.
- Unbelievably adorable bubblegum birthday party idea from A Little Loveliness – this might be a theme for one of the girls next year!
- Right. I’ve gone over the Tiger Mom thing enough. But here is the part I really really agree with from Chua’s original WSJ article: “What Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you’re good at it.”
- Books about Ancient Greece for kids. Hope is the Word has an excellent books for kids roundup every week.
- Ideas for using the Myers-Briggs personality types to flesh out your characters
- Five things you can do this week to become a better writer
- “If the main character’s not in jeopardy—physical, psychological, emotional, whatever—then you don’t have any tension, and you don’t have a story.” Excellent point from an author interview.
- “But my protagonist and antagonist are the same. He is his own worst enemy…Yeah…um, no.” Kristin Lamb has some great guidance for authors on her site.
- Four Ways to Make Yourself Complete a Book – advice I need to take to heart as my 90K draft sits and sits and sits, pitifully waiting to be transformed into its next iteration…all writers should be reading Jody Hedlund, she writes a fantastic blog.
- I have been making this chana masala recipe weekly ever since I found it. Except I make it with lentils so it’s not really chana masala. But it’s so delicious I would eat it three meals a day for the rest of my life. It’s that good.
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