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	<title>Comments on: Free to look for joy</title>
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		<title>By: About A Spirited Mind &#124; A Spirited Mind</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-619</link>
		<dc:creator>About A Spirited Mind &#124; A Spirited Mind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 03:03:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] deeply about where I am and where I&#8217;m headed.  On A Spirited Mind I write about issues like choosing contentment, how to be an encourager, where I find my identity, and whether the hard way is always the best [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] deeply about where I am and where I&#8217;m headed.  On A Spirited Mind I write about issues like choosing contentment, how to be an encourager, where I find my identity, and whether the hard way is always the best [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-307</link>
		<dc:creator>Wendy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 02:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am realizing that I haven&#039;t popped over here since your Mar. 8th post (for shame!), but I have really needed to read this one.  I have been indulging in a sinful amount of Facebook Envy lately.  Everyone (it seems) is going on lovely trips for spring break.  My brother just returned from 10 weeks studying in London and then spent a week with his family and other friends in California.  My mother had surgery in Mar. and I so wanted to go be with her (which I admitted in my status, only to then learn that my sister went with her daughter - from VA to FL to visit her and now they are back in FL again celebrating spring break with a trip to Disney).  Woe is me, here I am TRAPPED in the deserted wastelands of IN, and feeling like I will never travel again.

Trust is most definitely the primary issue.  I don&#039;t fully trust that God knows what He is doing.  I might be willing to admit that this move to my husband&#039;s grandmother&#039;s house was the best thing for our family, but I cannot seem to allow myself to admit to God that He had my best in mind as well.

Thanks for this post (and several others, I would have responded to, if I had been faithfully reading).  I really needed to hear this word about contentment and finding joy in whatever it is that God has placed before me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am realizing that I haven&#8217;t popped over here since your Mar. 8th post (for shame!), but I have really needed to read this one.  I have been indulging in a sinful amount of Facebook Envy lately.  Everyone (it seems) is going on lovely trips for spring break.  My brother just returned from 10 weeks studying in London and then spent a week with his family and other friends in California.  My mother had surgery in Mar. and I so wanted to go be with her (which I admitted in my status, only to then learn that my sister went with her daughter &#8211; from VA to FL to visit her and now they are back in FL again celebrating spring break with a trip to Disney).  Woe is me, here I am TRAPPED in the deserted wastelands of IN, and feeling like I will never travel again.</p>
<p>Trust is most definitely the primary issue.  I don&#8217;t fully trust that God knows what He is doing.  I might be willing to admit that this move to my husband&#8217;s grandmother&#8217;s house was the best thing for our family, but I cannot seem to allow myself to admit to God that He had my best in mind as well.</p>
<p>Thanks for this post (and several others, I would have responded to, if I had been faithfully reading).  I really needed to hear this word about contentment and finding joy in whatever it is that God has placed before me.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-219</link>
		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 19:28:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. Your first pragraph hit me right between the eyes. &quot;It’s as if I think that finding joy in a difficult situation would give God the all clear to keep it ongoing, whereas kicking against it or accepting it with a martyr’s deep sigh will alert God to the fact that I had other plans in mind.&quot;  I just got done crying over something that I&#039;m finding difficult, and your words were exactly what God wanted to say to me. Be joyful. Trust Him. 

THANK YOU! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. Your first pragraph hit me right between the eyes. &#8220;It’s as if I think that finding joy in a difficult situation would give God the all clear to keep it ongoing, whereas kicking against it or accepting it with a martyr’s deep sigh will alert God to the fact that I had other plans in mind.&#8221;  I just got done crying over something that I&#8217;m finding difficult, and your words were exactly what God wanted to say to me. Be joyful. Trust Him. </p>
<p>THANK YOU! <img src='http://aspiritedmind.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Weekend Links</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-217</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekend Links</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 19:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] good thought about choosing joy in difficult circumstances (via an article from Practical Theology for Women):  &#8220;God is working for your good.  And [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] good thought about choosing joy in difficult circumstances (via an article from Practical Theology for Women):  &#8220;God is working for your good.  And [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Heather E</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-206</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather E</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 17:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;It’s as if I think that finding joy in a difficult situation would give God the all clear to keep it ongoing, whereas kicking against it or accepting it with a martyr’s deep sigh will alert God to the fact that I had other plans in mind.&quot;

Wow. Wow. Wow.  So insightful.  I do that with God and with my husband.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;It’s as if I think that finding joy in a difficult situation would give God the all clear to keep it ongoing, whereas kicking against it or accepting it with a martyr’s deep sigh will alert God to the fact that I had other plans in mind.&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow. Wow. Wow.  So insightful.  I do that with God and with my husband.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy @ Hope Is the Word</title>
		<link>http://aspiritedmind.com/2010/03/free-to-look-for-joy/comment-page-1/#comment-189</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy @ Hope Is the Word</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 13:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a good word, Catherine.  I find it most difficult to be content when I begin looking around (i.e. at others--shame on me!).  Also, when I begin to doubt the path we&#039;ve chosen (single income, etc.).  

Thanks for the reminder!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a good word, Catherine.  I find it most difficult to be content when I begin looking around (i.e. at others&#8211;shame on me!).  Also, when I begin to doubt the path we&#8217;ve chosen (single income, etc.).  </p>
<p>Thanks for the reminder!</p>
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		<title>By: Alyssa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alyssa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 12:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It does sound pathetic when you write it all out like that... but sadly enough I can totally relate to those feelings. 

Thank you for this encouragment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It does sound pathetic when you write it all out like that&#8230; but sadly enough I can totally relate to those feelings. </p>
<p>Thank you for this encouragment.</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heidi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 10:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I needed that.  I&#039;m sure Stephen and Danny would have preferred I read it last week when I was truly cranky, but then I probably wouldn&#039;t have appreciated it as much because I was too busy sulking. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I needed that.  I&#8217;m sure Stephen and Danny would have preferred I read it last week when I was truly cranky, but then I probably wouldn&#8217;t have appreciated it as much because I was too busy sulking. <img src='http://aspiritedmind.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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